Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Five things women, should never joke about with their men.

  • "I think I might be into girls.": Ladies, don't act like you don't know that most guys like girls who like girls. If you are telling this little white lie to see if it turns your man on, you may be leaving him disappointed when you finally say, "just kidding." Playing with a man's sexual fantasies is like a man playing with your emotions. It's either you are into gurls or not.
  • "I'm pregnant.": This is one you don't even pull out on April Fool's Day. Depending on the reaction, this joke can leave either party hurt. If he responds with disappointment, you may end up upset that he has no interest in having kids with you. If he responds with happiness and joy, you may hurt his heart when you tell him it's not true.
  • "I think we should see other people."
    Who jokes about this? Teasing your man about wanting to break up will have have him thinking there's some truth behind the joke. You don't ever say you want to see other people when you're in a relationship unless you've thought about seeing other people. The relationship could be ruined once the joke festers in his head and he starts believing you already have.
  • "You don't satisfy me": Don't ever bruise a man's ego and say this, unless you mean it. Joking about a man's sexual performance may put your man in an insecure state, leading to other problems later in the relationship.
  • "We should get married.": More than likely if you're joking about this, you're half serious. Telling a man you are ready to get married in order to feel out where he stands might backfire on you. Even after you say you're bluffing, your man will think you're serious and he may begin to fall back from the relationship, scared to take that leap.
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So guys how true is this?...are these truly things you we shuldn't joke about?.....

Source: blackvoices

Laugh for Christ Sake

Wife goes to the supermarket and buys her husband a dozen underwear of the same colour.

When she returns home and gives him his present, the husband is thrilled till he opens the parcel. Then he protests:

“Why buy me same colour? People will think I do not change underwear!”

The wife asks: “Which people?”
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It was time for Father John's Saturday night bath, and young nun, Sister Magdalene had prepared the bath water and towels just the way the old nun had instructed. Sister Magdalene was also instructed not to look at Father John's nakedness if she could help it, do whatever he told her to do, and pray.

The next morning the old nun asked Sister Magdalene how the Saturday night bath had gone.

"Oh, sister," said the young nun dreamily. "I've been saved."

"Saved? And how did that fine thing come about?" asked the old nun.

"Well, when Father John was soaking in the tub, he asked me to wash him, and while I was washing him he guided my hand down between his legs where he said the Lord keeps the Key to Heaven."

"Did he now?" said the old nun evenly.

Sister Magdalene continued, "And Father John said that if the Key to Heaven fit my lock, the portals of Heaven would be opened to me and I would be assured of salvation and eternal peace. And then Father John

guided his Key to Heaven into my lock."

"Is that a fact?" said the old nun even more evenly.

"At first it hurt terribly, but Father John said the pathway to salvation was often painful and that the glory of God would soon swell my heart with ecstasy. And it did, it felt so good being saved."

"That wicked old Devil!" said the old nun. "He told me it was Gabriel's Horn, and I've been blowing it for the last 40 years!"

Pics of the day........

Awwh...doesn't he have the cutest smile and dimples??...am tripping...lol

Vilsco in the making......

It just has to be Vilisco right?

Monday, August 30, 2010

Makeup Tips for the Week...........

How To Apply Blush

Many women avoid blush especially women of color, but what I have realised is, it is a very improtant aspect of beauty and it can be a beauty secret weapon if applied appropriately. The problem is, blush tends to be overused atimes. Some ladies use it to hide imperfections caused by burns or what have you. To avoid looking like a clown, try these steps to choosing blush and applying it.
Note: When applying blush, you want the color to look soft and natural, as if it comes from within.
  • Choose a color that matches your skin undertone, or you can match it with your lip color. Fair skins usually go well with colors in peach, rose, pink and dark skin plum or red.
  • There is usually a small blush brush that comes with the blush when you buy, i would advice you throw that away. Use a professional full brush instead, a brush that is designed specially for applying blush, but don't use the same brush you use for your powder.
  • Put the blush on your brush, tapping off any excess or put a dab of gel on your fingers(this applies if you are using blushe that comes in gel form).
  • Now look into the mirror and smile. This helps you figure out where the 'apple' of your cheek is. It is usually best to apply blush only on the apple of your cheeks and blend it outward.
  • It is possible you might have gone a bit too heavy on the powder blush, a bit of translucent powder over it will calm it down. For cream blush, blot the color off with a tissue. Since gel & liquid blush 'stain' the cheeks, the only way to lighten them is it wash your face, moisturize and reapply your makeup, this time more sparingly.
  • If you have two shades, apply the darker one on the apple of the cheek first, then use the lighter shade to highlight. Blend well so there is no visible line between colors.
  • Highlight your temples, forehead and chin.
  • Finish your look with a sweep of loose powder and tell me if you like what you see?......

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Long Live the Michael Jackson!!!!!!!

Today would have marked Michael Jackson's 52nd birthday. Since his untimely death June last year.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Its a Countdown..........Virgo

THE Zodiacal Sign of Virgo commences on August 21st, but for seven days it does not come into its full power until on or about August 29th. From this date onwards it is in full strength until September 20th. Virgos are extremely critical thinkers who work hard to attain their desires and, perhaps, their most valuable asset is their brain and the attention they give to details. Although they are sensitive, they tend to revel in the world of logic, where they are most comfortable, only allowing those who have earned their trust into their emotional realm . . . and it’s no easy feat! They’ll eventually let you in but you have to put in the work, it’s the “virgin” in them. Because of their practical and analytical thought process, the Virgo is often the default go-to person for advice within their circle of friends and family and they effortlessly subdue a meltdown by applying rational and factual thought to melodrama. If you should capture the heart of the Virgo, you have a found a reliable friend and/or partner for life! The people in their lives often find comfort in the stability and order they offer.

Although Virgos are sharp thinkers, they do have a tendency to be overly critical, inflexible and narrow-minded. Once, they’re decided on a thought, principle or ideal it’s going to take a lifetime to try and convince them otherwise. Virgos are natural perfectionists, which is an admirable trait, but if they don’t take a realistic approach to things their fault-finding and nit-picking, judgmental nature can make them a total drag! A slob is no match for the Virgo, for they are tidy and often labeled a “neat-freak.” Everything has its place and things must be clean and orderly. Filth and nastiness, quite simply, make Virgos uncomfortable.

In the bedroom, the cool, calm and collected Virgo is hardly celibate the “virgin.” A mental connection is a must because, again, this sign likes things to be pure, so if you are lucky enough to love on Virgo, a mental connection is standard! Even though they can come across as prude or frigid, they are heavenly lovers. They like to build the experience over time! They completely destroy the “it’s never as good as the first time” theory because it gets better! Most are pleasantly surprised by their vigor. Once the Virgo is revved up, you’re not going anywhere . . . they take the slow-burn approach to their lovemaking. It’s head to toe. All or nothing. Go hard or go home. Remember, they’re perfectionist and as they peel away the layers of sensuality, they’re perfecting all the techniques and hot spots that are specific to their lover in hopes of building the perfect sexual experience. They’re quite devoted and patient lovers and failure or disappointment is not an option. If you want to impress a Virgo, you should pay close attention to details – clean sheets, clean body, clean smelling fragrances . . . all things clean!

Ultimately, Virgos are truly one of a kind and if have one in your life, things just make more sense. People who were born in this period are as a rule generally successful in life. They have keen, good intellects, are very discriminating about those with whom they associate, and in all business matters they have good judgment, and are not easily imposed upon or deceived.

So why am I talking about virgos is the question on your mind right?....well cuz obviously am a Virgo. Don't really believe in Zodiac signs, but I stumbled on this and I was quite impressed cuz it described me in alot of ways. Anyways, my birthday is coming up soon and I have some birthday gifts I want and I would put up soon...(its my blog so yes i can beg if i want to...lol).

The Sexiest.....Whats Your Pick?

So Whats ur pick?........

Events this Weekend...

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The Notting Hill Carnival 2010, August 29th and 30th

Patti LaBelle to Play The Role of Fela Kuti’s Mother in Award-Winning Broadway Musical FELA

Grammy Award-winning and multi-platinum recording artist Patti LaBelle will join the cast of the award-winning Broadway musical FELA! on September 14, when she takes over the role of revered Nigerian musician Fela Kuti’s mother, Funmilayo Anikulapo-Kuti.

“I am both thrilled and honoured to be joining the cast of FELA! After seeing the show, I was struck by the choreography and work of Bill T Jones, and the passion and joy that overflows from the stage.

“Funmilayo was an inspiring woman, and I am so privileged to be able to pay tribute to her on the Broadway stage,” says LaBelle.

The Kutis were held in high esteem. Fela’s father was a reverend, while his mother was a school teacher – and the first woman to drive a car in Nigeria. A strong character, she watched her son constantly persecuted for his belief as he fearlessly attacked the government on its excesses.

A brilliant lyricist and saxophonist, Fela’s Afrobeat music remains timeless. But it’s not only his music that is a source of memory, but also his unbelievable stamina that saw him having lots of women. He made history when he married 27 women – all his backing vocalists – in one ceremony.

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This is would be a movie to watch when it finally comes out....foreign casts playing the life and times of Fela Anikulapo-Kuti........

Source: questionmark

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Steps to Beautiful Eyebrows.....

The above diagram,gives some basic guidelines for shaping and filling your eyebrows using a pencil. Every set of eyebrows are unique in their own way, but generally, try to follow your natural brow arc.

1.A vertical line from side of your nostril straight up, usually is the starting point of your eyebrow.

2. A straight line from the side of your nostril, along side the outer corner of your eye, up to your brow area, will be the finishing point of your brow. Now, if you feel the resulting brow based on the starting and ending points works, pluck the hairs that are outside of the new brow area.
Note:Don't pluck brow hair above your eyebrow.

3. The third imaginary line, will create the shape of your brow. Try to work with your natural brow shape and work in proportion to your face. Don't force a big arc where naturally is a fairly straight line. A straight line on subtle upward angle, that finishes in a soft arc over the outer third of the eye, is a formula that suits many. Every thing under that line is to be plucked (usually just strays).

If your brows are very fair and/ or sparse, you can successfully achieve eyebrow impact, with a good, well matched to your coloring, eye brow pencil. Use fine, little strokes, to create the appearance of hairs. Then use a brush to soften the lines.

You should pluck eyebrows before bedtime so any redness will disappear overnight.(especially for light skinned ladies).

Pluck each hair individually close to the root. Work in the direction of the growth.

Did you know that brows should be a little lighter than your hair color? Yes, it's true...about two shades.

So ladies lets get those brows nicely shaped for that perfect look cuz your brows add strenght and definition to your face......

Source: beauty and makeup tip.com

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Ultima Studios Burnt to Ashes

Ultima Studios, located on Plot 45 Omole Industrial Layout, Isheri/Ogba Junction, Ogba, Ikeja, Lagos has been badly damaged after a mysterious fire on the premises spiraled out of control.

No casualties were reported.

Ultima Studios is owned by Ultima Ltd, a Lagos-based TV production company responsible for such popular TV shows as Who Wants to be a Millionaire (Nigeria) and Project Fame West Africa. The shows were routinely shot at the studio from where they were broadcasted to the rest of the country.

It was reported that the building caught fire when an air-conditioner suddenly blew off, and the contestants’ efforts to put out the fire with extinguishers failed to contain the inferno. The resulting catastrophe reportedly destroyed production equipment worth over a billion naira

According to the CEO of Ultima Ltd, Mr Femi Ayeni, the damage would have been fifty percent averted if men of the Fire Service had arrived on time; Fire Service got to the Isheri/Ogba Junction scene when the damage had already been done.

The Project Fame contestants were swiftly moved into a close-by hotel and no casualty was recorded.

Sources close to the producers quoted an executive as saying ‘the show must go on!

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This is really sad.....please Govt do something about our Fire Service in this Country. Is it until we loose alot more before we realise what needs to be done?...I mean it can't be that hard can it?...Ultima Studios am sorry for your loss...whats going to happen to project fame now, cuz am really enjoying that programme.

Source: thenetng

Miss Mexico Crowned Miss Universe

22-year-old Jimena Navarrete of Guadalajara, Mexico is the new Miss Universe. Navarrette won last night's pageant held at Mandalay Bay Convention Center in Las Vegas.

Navarrete replaces Miss Universe 2009 Stefania Fernandez of Venezuela stopping the country's two-year winning streak.

Besides the crown, Jimena's winnings also include an undisclosed salary, a luxury New York apartment with living expenses, a one-year scholarship to the New York Film Academy with housing after her reign, plus jewelry, clothes and shoes.
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Congrats gurl.....better luck next time Naija, but we did great.....jewelry, clothes and shoes....omg, I envy her.

Pictures Courtsey of: gettyimages

A Movie to Watch

I think its her best Movie so far.......

Concealer Can Be Your Best Friend

How many times has it intimidated us because we're not sure how or when to use it? There is a shade for you and a way to match your skin tone perfectly. As a makeup artist, I work will all skin tones and sometimes I have to mix colors to find the perfect shade for that face. Once applied correctly, concealer can be your best friend. Here are a few tips to making it work for you:
  • First, take a mirror and look very closely at your face. Most women have at least two tones in their skin, while some women have more and this might be due to exposure of sun or wrong cream useage. Don't be afraid to take your time and try different shades. Once blended correctly, the result is magical.
  • You want to try and find a concealer that is one shade lighter than your skin while considering your foundation shade. Try the concealer with your foundation applied on one side and also without foundation on the other side. See if your foundation is affecting the tone and whether you can wear the concealer alone. Once you have found the right shade(s), then its time to prep.
  • Make sure you mosturize under the eye properly with a good eye cream. Concealer doesn't sit well on dry skin. Do not swipe or rub in the product. The eye area is so delicate, and you don't want to welcome the wrinkles that are just waiting to make an appearance by pulling or tugging. Always use your ring finger and pat gently.
  • Your fingers are the best makeup tools, and they warm the product for a smooth easy application. Pat the product underneath the eye, and blend it down the face near your nose and then pat it back up to your outer eye (creating a filled-in triangle). You can also apply it on your brow bone and on any skin imperfections. Blend well by patting and finish with a light dusting of your favorite powder.
By using concealer correctly, you will instantly lift and brighten up your face and the result is a fresh, flawless face. So give it a try ok...........

Kween Comes Back Home

Kween Onokala is back in town, two years after leaving for London

The sexy singer was already on her way to joining the A-list, when she got pregnant for club proprietor Dotun Omotoye, in 2008. And, before anyone could spot the bump, she was off to London- her city of refuge. London it was, that Kween gave birth to her first child Tyresse nearly 10 years ago.

She gave birth to her second boy Tyronne, in London on Saturday January 31, 2009 and even though she promised to return on time to get married (to fiancé Dotun Omotoye) resume work on her career and release her long overdue debut album, Ms Onokala remained away for two years, causing many to think she had bid Nigeria adieu for good.

Sources say Mr Omotoye spent some time in London last December; reuniting with Kween and Tyronne, and putting up solid machinery for their return.

On Thursday August 5, Kween quietly returned home with her babies. No word yet on her wedding; but a spokesperson tells us she’s finally ready to release her album Thy Kweendom Come.

She’s back for good‘, said her rep.

Source: thenetng

Kimora Lee Simmons Leaves Baby Phat

Kimora Lee Simmons recently announced that she's parting ways with her 14 year-old ties with Baby Phat and Phat Fashions. According to E! Online, Kimora will be dissolving her relationship as of September 1st to focus on other business ventures such as her clothing lines, KLS, Fabulosity and Kouture by Kimora Collection for Macys.

Source: Eonline

Tiger Woods Divorce Finalized

Tiger Woods and Elin Nordgren are officially no more. The couple finalized their divorce in a Panama City, FL courtroom Monday morning.

"We are sad that our marriage is over and we wish each other the very best for the future," they said in a statement released by Nordegren's Virginia-based law firm of McGuireWoods. "While we are no longer married, we are the parents of two wonderful children and their happiness has been, and will always be, of paramount importance to both of us."

The exact settlement details have yet to be disclosed but reports claim Elin could have received anywhere from $100 to $500 million in assets from Woods. The couple will both be sharing custody of their two children, Sam Alexis, 3 and Charlie Axel, 18 months. The couple was required to take a 4-hour parenting course prior to finalizing their divorce.

Although Elin signed a prenuptial agreement, sources say that the terms were renegotiated after Woods' sex scandal surfaced.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Photos of Some Miss Universe 2010 Contestants

Name: Yendi Phillipps
Country: Jamaica
Age: 24

(love her concept...)

Name: Alice Musukwa
Country: Zambia
Age: 22

Name: Janeisha John
Country: U.S. Virgin Islands
Age: 22

Name: LaToya Woods
Country: Trinidad & Tobago
Age: 24

Name: Ngozi Odalonu
Country: Nigeria
Age: 22

Name: Hellen Dausen
Country: Tanzania
Age: 23

Name: Josefina Nunez
Country: British Virgin Islands
Age: 22

Name: Braneka Bassett
Country: Bahamas
Age: 23

Name: Tirelo Ramasedi
Country: Botswana
Age: 21

Name: Lady Mina Lastra
Country: Ecuador
Age: 24

Name: Melinda Victoria Elvenes
Country: Norway
Age: 23

Miss Universe 2010 will be chosen Monday, August 23, in Las Vegas.....We are rooting for you Ngozi Odalonu......

Find the Perfect Makeup Artist for Your Wedding Day

We've gotten to that point of the year were alot of weddings take place and alot of planning has to be put in place. You have the dress, the caterer, the flowers and the perfect man, but do you have a makeup artist? Yes, finding the makeup artist is always a difficult task because you want to look absolutely perfect on your special day, and it may take some time to find someone who gets your vision. But the effort is so worth it. Don't risk it by waiting until the last minute either. I'm sure you have a friend who can "do makeup," but bridal makeup is very different from everyday makeup and should be done to your liking. You should just be able to sit back, relax and enjoy your moment.

In case you are having troubles finding the right makeup artist, you can go through some options like:
  • Go through some magzines for listed artists.
  • If you have a an events or wedding planner, ask about makeup artists he/she works with and set up at least two trial appointments. Most trials will have a nominal fee but will be deducted from the total if you decide to book
This is your big day and you want to look your best. Take your time and find someone who wants the same for you ok?

Enjoy your day looking beautiful (and you can always call me up...lol)

Mother Reportedly Suffocates, then Drowns Sons

Twenty-nine-year-old Shaquan Duley told police that she suffocated her two toddlers in a motel before strapping them into their car seats and driving them off a boat ramp on the banks of the Edisto River in South Carolina. Authorities reported that she wasn’t a seasoned criminal, but rather an angry and unemployed mother unable to support her toddlers. “She just wanted to get rid of her children, sad as it may be,” said Sheriff Larry Williams.
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Why didn't she just drop them in front of some orphanage home or call Social Welfare or something.............

Jay-Z: Richest Rapper in the Game

Forbes is out again with its list of ‘Hip-Hop Cash Kings’ and New York rapper Jay-Z takes the cake, raking in $63 million in the past 12 months. In second, Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs earned $30 million. Akon was third with $21 million. It is estimated that Jay-Z will pay approximately $22 million in taxes.
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Jay Z, lets talk business...(as we say it here in Naija...lets runz things).

My Look of the Week ..........


Friday, August 20, 2010

So me just talking.......

So its a friday night and am here seated at home all alone, weird right? I mean, I could be somewhere partying the night away or catching a few movies or simply having a few drinks with friends, but rather I chose to sit down at home, listen to music and blog the night away...lol...but now am bored and wishing I had made other plans for the night. So friends you will all have to bear with me as I, ramble on to cure the boredom.

So what do I talk about.....Yeah that reminds me, what is it with guys this days, I mean whenever we ladies come up with a new fashion trend, before you know it, guys are wearing or doing almost thesame thing. Seriously, when we wear low neck stuffs to reveal some cleavages, trust me guys are also wearing V-neck shaped tops to reveal what I dont know exactly...(maybe some chest hair, which I wonder, whats so sexy about that?). Now we are into the skinny jeans era, am sure you have seen guys wearing those as well especially the ones with the turn up at the bottom? We wear earrings, they do as well, we weave our hair, and they do that as well, I mean what is left is for them to put on high waist skirts or more like high waist pants...(that would look ridiculous on them though...lol). They even go as far as painting their nails, don't tell me you haven't seen a guy wearing cutex, I was shocked the first time I saw it aswell, thought it was only rock stars that wear them, but I saw a proper Naija guy ....well maybe he was gay, I wouldn't know, but it just felt weird for me. We carry handbags, they also have long strap bags they carry.

Well, it just shows that one way or the other we tend to rub off on each other, picking things, or characteristics or traits from one another. I guess that was the origanl intention Biblically, when God took one of mans ribs to make woman...lol

Anyways guys, no offense, this is just me talking. We love you no matter whichever of our styles you decide to take aslong as they suit you. The good thing is you are not wearing lipsticks yet...lol..

G'night, finally decided to go sleep.....

Cristiano Ronaldo........Bringing sexy into football

A recent photo shoot by Cristiano Ronaldo for a watch company this week -- a commercial that thankfully requires him to be shirtless......

Laurence Fishburne's Daughter, Montana, Makes Her Adult Film Debut, Hoping for Kim Kardashian Success

The Academy Award-nominated actor Laurence Fishburne's daughter, Montana, has announced her debut in the forthcoming adult movie, aptly titled 'Montana Fishburne.'

Judging from the film's description of Montana tapping into her more sensual, erotic side while visiting a mall and a hotel, it's a it's a safe bet that the 19-year-old (who also goes by the name "Chippy-D") won't nail any accolades from the film academy.

Surprisingly, Fishburne's decision to release the hour-plus-long Vivid Entertainment DVD stems from another sex tape star.

"I view making this movie as an important first step in my career," she revealed. "I've watched how successful Kim Kardashian became, and I think a lot of it was due to the release of her sex tape by Vivid. I'm hoping the same magic will work for me. I'm impatient about getting well known and having more opportunities and this seemed like a great way to get started on it."
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Ok do you think shes out of line on this move?.......yeah we all grew up having role models and such, I just wonder why she picked a sex tape as something to look up to?....well its her life, feel for her dad cuz am sure he had other hopes for her, but wish her luck on this great journey into the porn world...........

Thursday, August 19, 2010

In need of hairstyles???....what do you think of these??

ok...please tell me what do u make of these hair styles...sexy, pretty, weird, ridiculous...lol.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

A joke to brighten your day.....

My Rules
Typical macho man married typical good-looking lady and after the wedding, he laid down the following rules:

"I'll be home when I want, if I want and at what time I want-and I don't expect any hassle from you. I expect a great dinner to be on the table unless I tell you that I won't be home for dinner. I'll go hunting, fishing, boozing and card-playing when I want with my old buddies and don't you give me a hard time about it. Those are my rules. Any comments?"

His new bride said, "No, that's fine with me. Just understand that there will be sex here at seven o'clock every night.. whether you're here or not."
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Second Opinion
A doctor and his wife are having a fight at the breakfast table. Husband gets up in a rage and says, "And you are no good in bed either," and storms out of the house. After sometime he realizes he was nasty and decides to make amends and calls home.

She comes to the phone after many rings and the irritated husband says, "What took you so long to answer the phone?"

She says, "I was in bed."

"In bed this early, doing what?" Shouts the doctor.

"Getting a second opinion!"

Lets talk about sex.................

I was talking to a friend recently, she seriously feels shes a lesbian cuz the few times she has been with a guy she didn't enjoy it......I told her i think the issue is her mind, sex is something that has to do with the mind, if she can clear her mind of that negativity of not being able to enjoy it with a guy, then she just might find herself enjoying it....i told her she probably isn't with the right guy that would make her enjoy it, a guy that would take his time to understand the way her body works and help her to reach into that inner most feelings of her mind....our bodies where created to enjoy sex, if we don't its cuz we have created some mental block or the other towards it and it now affects our level of enjoying this God given pleasure.....(person wey here me now go think say I be guru for the matter..don't mind me o.....just blogging.....lol)

Anyways, I had to do some research on the issue of reaching an orgasm for women, cuz I have happened to be in gatherings of ladies, and we complain on issues like...'i don't come, does that mean am not enjoying it?, do i have to fake it?, does that make me rigid and so on..." Well here is a little something that I hope would help us...

WE hear a lot these days about how people can and should make love, but there are virtually no rules for good sex.

It isn't compulsory to have an orgasm. As long as a woman is left feeling satisfied, neither she nor her partner should feel that they have in any way failed because she hasn't had an orgasm.

Sex is for your pleasure, not to pass some test or keep up with the Jones's.

Many women, however, while they enjoy intercourse with their partner, never or rarely reach orgasm, and are left feeling dissatisfied as a result.

Women's problems over orgasm vary. Some women have never experienced an orgasm at all. This is often because they were brought up to think of sex as something not quite nice.

Parents worried about daughters getting pregnant may keep impressing on them that they mustn't get carried away. It is small wonder that, when they have a partner, they can't suddenly undo all those lessons to their sub-conscious.

Before a woman who has never experienced an orgasm can help her partner to help her to climax, she has to learn for herself what pleases her. Sex is a positive pleasure, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying it, even when you are alone.

Having given yourself permission to enjoy your sexuality, you have to find out what turns you on, explore the effect of different caresses of the genital area.

There is nothing wrong with self-stimulation - in fact it is a basic part of the treatment prescribed by sex therapists.

It's not stimulation of the vagina, by the way, but of the clitoris that leads to orgasm for most women - the clitoris is the little peak you can feel in the front of the vagina.

When you have an orgasm it feels like an internal throbbing. The intensity varies widely. It can be fierce and wild, it may be quiet and sensuous. The common denominator is it certainly should feel pleasurable.

Some women learn how to masturbate, perhaps as teenagers, but find they are unable to reach a climax with their partner, even if he stimulates them in a similar way.

The most likely cause of this is a variation on the inhibited feelings mentioned before. Their sub-conscious will not let them admit to anyone else that they are enjoying sex.

Sharing regular sessions of all-over massage can help a couple start communicating physically and sexually. Use a little cream or oil, massage and stroke one another all over. Say what feels good and what not-so-good.

When the time feels right, you can begin showing one another how to give the most pleasure by stroking and massaging the sexual areas, too. The only rule is that you should both enjoy it.

Some women can climax when masturbating or when stimulated in some similar way by their partner, but cannot reach orgasm during intercourse.

In fact, this is normal, as only a minority of women do climax during intercourse. Most reach orgasm through other stimulation. Many couples have perfectly happy ways of making love which involve the man stimulating the woman until she climaxes, either before or after intercourse.

It really doesn't matter how or when a woman reaches her climax, as long as she enjoys it, but if a couple feel that they very much would like the woman to climax during intercourse, they may find a change in position will help or he can caress her at the same time.

The vagina has comparatively few nerve endings and the clitoris has many. Basically, few women can possibly climax unless they are receiving some form of clitoral stimulation.

Of course, it is important for the man to be sure that the woman is really aroused before he attempts intercourse, so they must share lots of loving foreplay first.

Also the man has to be able to sustain intercourse for a reasonable length of time, since it is important to keep stimulating a woman right up to and during orgasm.

Reaching a climax needs some muscle tension and you can give this a nudge in the right direction.

You need to have at least half an hour of foreplay to be sure the woman is fully aroused. Then she shouldn't try to relax but tense the pelvic-floor muscle (if you're unsure how to do this, my free leaflet on increasing sexual sensation explains).

If she then arches her back and puts her head back, this gets her body in the right position to reach climax, as long as her partner carries on pleasuring her.

Assuming a couple feel free to experiment with what feels good to them, then they have a good chance of discovering what will lead to the woman achieving full sexual satisfaction pretty frequently, if not every time.

However, some couples experiment with different positions and techniques and still draw a blank. Too much alcohol can dry up the vaginal secretions and reduce the blood flow to the sex organs. This in turn can make sex more painful and will affect a woman's ability to have an orgasm.

Loss of orgasm can also be linked with major changes in a woman's life such as childbirth or the menopause. Depression can severely damp down sexual feelings. It could be that she's had a bad sexual experience in the past or that there's some problem in her relationship with her partner, and unaided you can't stop it getting in the way.

Source: thesun

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Definition of Sexy.........

This were some of her shoots for the label 'House of Deron', and I have to say, she bought the sexy on big time......Beyonce you are hot anytime gurl